Thanksgiving is a time of year that brings families and friends together to express gratitude for the special moments in their lives. It’s a holiday filled with warmth, delicious food, and cherished traditions. But did you know that Thanksgiving can also potentially impact children with autism? In this blog post, we’ll explore the unique opportunity this holiday brings to create meaningful opportunities for growth, connection, and joy for children on the autism spectrum.
Sensory-Friendly Celebrations
From the rich aromas of roasting turkey and pumpkin pie to the vibrant colors of fall foliage, this holiday provides an excellent opportunity for sensory exploration. Parents and caregivers can use this time to create a sensory-friendly environment for children with autism. Soft lighting, cozy textures, and calming music can all help children feel more at ease during the festivities.
Social Interaction and Communication
Thanksgiving gatherings often involve extended family and friends, which can be a great opportunity for children with autism to practice their social interaction and communication skills. Encourage relatives to engage with your child, respecting their unique communication style and pace. Whether through verbal exchanges, picture exchange systems, or even gestures, every interaction can be a stepping stone toward improved social connections.
Thanksgiving Prep as a Learning Experience
Involving children with autism in Thanksgiving preparations can be a valuable learning experience. From setting the table to helping with simple cooking tasks, these activities offer opportunities for fine motor skill development, following instructions, and building a sense of responsibility. Children may also enjoy engaging with visual schedules or step-by-step picture guides to understand the sequence of tasks.
Visual Schedules for Predictability
Children with autism often benefit from visual schedules, which provide predictability and structure to their day. Thanksgiving is no exception. Create a visual schedule that outlines the day’s activities, from morning preparations to the Thanksgiving meal and post-feast relaxation. This can help your child understand what to expect and reduce anxiety.
Celebrating Achievements
Thanksgiving is a time to celebrate and give thanks. Take a moment to reflect on your child’s achievements, no matter how small they may seem. Recognizing and celebrating accomplishments can boost your child’s self-esteem and motivation, whether it’s progress in therapy, mastering a new skill, or showing resilience in challenging situations.
Teaching Gratitude
Thanksgiving is all about gratitude, and it’s an excellent opportunity to teach this vital life skill to children with autism. Use visual supports like gratitude jars, where family members can write down things they are thankful for, or create a gratitude tree with leaves representing each family member’s message of gratitude. Encouraging your child to participate in these activities can foster a sense of appreciation.
If your child is receiving ABA therapy, their clinical team can be a great help! Their Board Certified Behavior Analyst can offer great insight on how to help your child transition from their daily routine to help them feel more comfortable during the holiday celebration. By creating a sensory-friendly environment and providing opportunities for growth and connection, families can make Thanksgiving a joyful and meaningful experience for their autistic children. This holiday reminds us that, with love, patience, and understanding, we can celebrate the uniqueness of every individual. This Thanksgiving let’s harvest happiness and gratitude while creating memories that will last a lifetime.
